The whole crossdresser group is lumped together with everyone else that does fit in the typical hetro mold. Do I like it, Not even a little bit. I am a totally hetro male, that just happens to like to play dressup some times. It does not make me gay. Just as it does not nmake every gay person a crossdresser. But unless you are ready to step up to the plate and fight for the cause, then you just have to grin and bear it.