I'm curious. If your SO doesn't know you dress, where do you keep your clothes, make-up, and accessories so that she won't find them? I was getting dressed this morning and looked at the bottles and tubes all over the counter and wondered how closeted CD's manage without getting caught. It's something I take for granted, that I don't have to be meticulous and clean up after myself every day. Surely she would find them if they are kept in the house.