I've been full time for the past ten yearrs. Have flown dressed (with male ID with femme picture) out of Los Angeles International several times, and out of San Francisco, San Jose, Seattle, Fairbanks AK, amd New York (JFK).
The most challenging flight was out of San Francisco, as I had had my wallet (including driver's license) stolen by a pickpocket on the trip and only had a temporary license without a picture!
No problems anywhere.
So I can tell you that for me, at least in the USA, flying en femme is a non-issue.
I've traveled (not flown) to some very unlikely places--small towns, very consdervative areas, a van trip driving across Alaska with a small group of strangers, arriving and leaving from Canada, and so on. I've occasionally been asked some questions, which I've answered.
I've been issued traffic tickets, been to government offices, been through metal detectors, been admitted to the hospital a couple of times, and served on jury duty, all dressed, with male ID. I've been ma'amed the bulk of the time and sirred a few times. I've used the women's restroom consistently everywhere, always without problem.
A crossdressed friend has been invited to join a health club, and use the women's locker room.
I've handled it all with smiles, honesty, tact, common sense, and courtesy. That's all it takes.
Sincerely,
Rikki
