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    Shoes glorious shoes rachellegsep's Avatar
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    Yes. She just had her gel fill ins done and had no nail polish. I said I have the perfect colour and gave her some a light dusty pink of mine to use, she loves the colour and kept on looking at her hands every so often.
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    my wife had a hard time with it for years but now it's just part of life we enjoy

    susie

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    My wife luvs it she shay's just about everything everyone else has said. life is good.

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    My wife will not recognize anything to do with my feminine side or my dressing. In her mind it does not exist. She wishes it to stay that way.
    Charlie

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    My wife hates it and wishes I would stop. She thinks it's "creepy" - you can imagine how that makes me feel.
    Linda Marie Daniels

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    Does your SO like anything about your femme side?

    She had better. My femme side is a big part of what makes me...... me!

    Kiva

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    Quote Originally Posted by LindaMarie View Post
    My wife hates it and wishes I would stop. She thinks it's "creepy" - you can imagine how that makes me feel.
    Ummm, yep know just how you feel, my SO hates it as well.
    I dressed up on a boring winter day years ago and walked out and she turned a great feeling into a total nightmare.

    I jokingly now call her a tight a** uptight biatch, lmao, even she chuckles on that one.
    We hurl insults back and forth alot at eachother and most of the time its just kidding around and I laugh like hell at some of the stuff she says, but I really didn't appreciate her response that day, and to me it drove a wedge in between us that day and I still feel some resentment.
    Last edited by Jess_cd32; 09-24-2008 at 01:40 PM. Reason: what else, spelling again, ahhhhhhh

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    Unhappy

    Absolutely - NOTHING

    But these days the feelings mutual! :Angry3:
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    I sure my wife loves my feminine side... she just doesn't know how far it goes. She likes me to go shopping with her she likes the way I clean and cook do dishes. I'm a good listener and can usually offer advice, but I'm sure things would go south if she found out I crossdressed.

    Marjory

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    My wife is pretty much indifferent about my dressing. We just don't talk about it much. There are bad days but what does she like? She has never really said but I know...

    Mainly she borrows my clothes or makeup a lot.
    I don't bitch when she spends a lot of money on makeup.

    So yeah, having more clothes and makeup to use.
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    We Share Some Clothing

    [SIZE="4"]While my wife accepts my dressing, she's isn't overly thrilled about it. We can share skirts, blouses, blazers, camis and sweaters. So far we haven't come to blows over the same article of clothing :D.

    Gennee
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    She likes that I shave my under arms and, surprisingly, she likes the feel of my nightie when we make love.

    Chris

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    My wife is "grudgingly tolerant" and that is only after seeing a therapist for several months to discuss my "problem" and how to deal with it. She comes from an old school strict catholic upbringing where men are men, women are women and nothing in between is "normal" or acceptable. She knows I cd but as long as their isn't any VISIBLE physical evidence of it and I don't talk about it, it's tolerated. Until the therapist came into the picture, divorce seemed imminent and obvious! She does disappointingly understand though that my personality, demeanor, likes and dislikes all come from having this strong feminine side and they are all part of what attracted her to me in the first place.

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    I fall into the "she hates it " category.Doesn't want to see it, hear it,or talk about it.I can certainly relate to a lot of the other posts here.The main problem, I believe, is that she doesn't want to learn anything on the subject,and bases her opinion on mis-information. But we're trying!
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    She feels safer. Which is very good because it means she relaxes. She had a dream the other night about having a bunch of her girlfriends over and one was trying on an outfit. Her friend was concerned I would see her changing. Then I walked by and I was all decked out in women's clothe. No one really took any notice, but the friend felt more comfortable, like maybe it wouldn't really matter. Then I headed into the kitchen and my wife's father was there. His marriage ended, in part, because of his relationship to crossdressing and the dynamic with his wife. In the dream, he's like "What this?"... very surprised.
    She likes soft kisses.
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    My wife Nikki says I am her best shopping buddy and knows she can come to me for advice.

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    NO, Long story but some of the older girls here on the forum know why.
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    We have know each other for 18 years, she has know about my dressing for 17 years and we have been married for 16 years.

    In the early days she was very accepting bought me clothes etc but by the time I had collected more dresses than her she had turned against it and didn't want to see me dressed anymore.

    Recently her attitude has softened especially since I shed 3 stone in weight. There is now only one dress size between us and many of my dresses fit her, especially the bias cut ones.

    In the past few months she has raided my wardrobe three times to borrow evening dresses for social functions, she has always nicked my stockings, nail polish and other make up sometimes mysteriously disappears from my box and finds it's way to hers.

    She also frequently asks my advice on fashions and other girls things.

    BUT if you asked her if there was anything she liked about my femme side I'm sure she would say no! She would go onto say that it's part of me, she's unable to change it, so she accepts it and sometimes uses it for her own advantage rather than pointlessly fight it against it..... but likes it? .... if only!

    Still I'm luckier than some and do have a couple of good female friends who do like my femme side

    Love Di x

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    my feminine side

    My wife loves my feminine side and encourages me always.

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    I love this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by beau View Post
    she likes where the toilet seat is kept
    You mean she leaves it up?

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    What other words are there for HATES IT, can't stand it, can you say Dicorce! I don't really know why. I think she has this fairy tale fantasy view of the world. Yo know the one where men are men and women are women. Thats all so black and white.
    What I don't understand is that I do the cooking. I do the shopping. I get up in the middle of the night with the child. I bath, read and put him to bed. I sew on buttons when they fall off and love to watch " What not to wear " with her. I also can do all those " Male " things. Fix the toilet, repair the house etc etc etc.
    If the list of GG stereotypical ideals are left to me and that is OK, why are the heels not OK?

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