I decided against the first three femme names I came up with because I realized that there were women I worked with or knew socially that had those names.
Not only did I NOT want to hear 'my' name all the time at work and get jumpy about it, I also didn't want to have the feeling like I was trying to emulate that particular GG by taking her name.
So, Cristi is not my first choice (and may change at some point) but at least it it unique among the women I know.
