Jennifer -- I mostly agree with everything you have said. One little point though is about the fact that you have never "got an inkling ... dressed that way to mock women...we want to emulate the women we admire. "
Pardon my snipping there. I hope that I haven't mangled what you said!
Okay -- where was I -- oh -- they reason you haven't gotten that inkling is because we here are for the most part a very respectful and dare I say it, 'gentlemanly' bunch of ladies! Every so often something crude, rude, and disrespectful attempts to slip through but the mods usually nip it in the bud, and the person sees that this isn't that kinda place and departs.
The seamier side of things is on CD groups at places like Yahoo Groups.
As to your second bit, IMHO, the women who feel threatened by us -- oh heck here comes the generalisations -- would be ones who themselves have embraced the the negative aspects of some men's characters as their own -- all in the name of their own 'equality'. In other words, their quest for equality has taken them down and made them equal to the 'gentleman' (sic) who sit in strip clubs. We are the embodiment of that which they despise in themselves, kindness, gentleness, compassion, romance, and love.
Which ties back the first bit .. when I read about that which we love about women, (there was a thread about that a few months back), it was filled with kindness, gentleness, compassion, romance, and love in women, but also toward them.
Only a bully of a woman would see that as mockery.
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Toni-Lynn