If you tell her at the start of the evening you want to talk seriously she may worry about what your going to say
Its possible the questioning will start there and then
good luck![]()
If you tell her at the start of the evening you want to talk seriously she may worry about what your going to say
Its possible the questioning will start there and then
good luck![]()
I may be wrong but telling her at the start of the evening that you have something to talk to her about at the end of the evening may ruin the whole evening for her, with worries unfounded, I know it would me.
Be prepared fro questions some you may have no difficulty in answering, some you may and then there may be some questions you don't have an answer for at this time, and rather than attempt an explanation be honest and tell her I don't know.
Let her know that there is a GG section on here where she can ask all sorts of things that one of us will probaley be able to answer, many of us have been where she is now and we have made it this far :D
Good luck hun![]()
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Thanks ladies, that's what I was worried about, mentioning something to her at the start of the evening. I'll hold off until the time actually comes.
And I think that, while I'd kind of rather write something down for her, it'll go over better if I talk to her about it in person as long as I stay calm and can get her to stay calm and we go slow. Maybe I'll writing something today and bring it with me, in case I change my mind.
Thanks again, everyone.
Apparently, my SO's sister's SO-ish guy (it's complicated) is coming to town today and staying through next Monday. I found out about this last night. Nobody likes the guy except for my SO's sister, but he's staying at their house nonetheless.
As a result, her dad thought it would be a good idea to do family get-together type stuff and have pizza tonight at 7:15, the same time that my family was going to be playing board games and after my SO and I would have already had dinner. And so, the dinner has been postponed until Saturday at the earliest (I've already got plans with friends tomorrow night). Also, at this point, my SO is unsure of where this guy is going to sleep, as there aren't any spare bedrooms in their house. With the massive rearrangement of plans for this evening on such short notice, my confession has been postponed until Saturday. Hopefully things will run a little more smoothly then, and hopefully we'll still be able to have an area in her house where we can have extended alone time for talking like we usually do.
On the bright side, it does give me more time to write that letter that I decided I was going to do. :brolleyes: Please keep wishing me luck til Saturday, though hopefully I won't need it!
what ever you do just do give her the letter and leave. frist talk to her and then say i wrote you a letter to read when you want to. I might help you understand why I cd , at least mabey alittle. So she has talked to you AND now she has a letter to read. That would be much better. A letter along would not be a good idea. You see how we said that things will get in the way of you telling her. Thats life so take the next oppertunaty to tell her even if it's one you have not planed for. If it feels right do . Well good luck hun HUGGS:canada:
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