Out in Las Vegas, looking for help

[kalidonovan]

Nora, I will be heading down that way soon, as soon as i get 10 posts, i will PM you , hahah


btw the trip was bad. I will have to take some time to write it up for all to feel my pain. haha

[vivianann]

Kali, you have 2 more posts to go so we can communicate via p.m.s or open messages, go for it. Would like to hear more about you trip, sorry it did not go well. hope to see you soon in SLC.

[GINA-CD]

I was there last year and had also an uncomfortable situation. You can read HERE in case you want some type of comfort that you were not the only one.

Of course I had a second chance and then it went OK. No big deal for a lot of girls here since they're out there all the time, but some of us these first times are really intimidating. If you're interested in reading about that, it's HERE. Long and boring maybe.

Good luck next time.

[Nora]

HI Cali:
I am sorry that the trip went Bad. I am looking forward to hearing from you as to what happens. Next time that you visit please let me know and I hope that I can help in making your visit more positive, Of course if things were bad because you lost while gambling then there is nothing I can do. lol.

Nora

[kalidonovan]

ahhh 10th,

Nora and Gina when i get a sec, sending PMs your way.

[kalidonovan]

Ok so I wanted to write and tell all of you gurls that have responded to my initial request for help on my visit to Vegas, how my actual trip went.

So just to give you some background, I have dressed since 7 or 8, but had not really begun to embrace it until I was married and turned 30 or so. I'm now 34 and Have been out of my house dressed maybe 8 times, but I would have to say that going out in my home town at late hours was fun at first but became incredible boring. So 2 years ago I went out on Halloween and was seen by a few in a bar and in a 24 hour lingerie shop. This was ok but again at 3 in the morning by my self It was basically unrewarding at best and non eventful to say the least.

So my next adventure was in San Francisco, where i stayed at at large fancy hotel near the airport. Gina you know that story about your key card not working? well mine had the same issue, it is used not only to get in and out of your hotel room but also to get your car out of the parking lot. My key was broken and I had to push a button and ask for assistance, fortunately they can open the gate remotely and the only issue there was a Low male voice and a women speaking it on the camera, haha anyways, that was fun, I drove into the city parked my car walked into Divas a TG/CD bar there and got picked up on by a few guys, then I got a little scared and left, while walking back to my car I was propositioned by a guy that had followed me out of the bar. It was a fun night and was still a much longer story.

And onto my next story, my most recent one in Vegas.

Now just so you gurls now what im going for. I love to dress, love how it feels, and how i look. I don't know what i want out of it, I'm not gay but do have some fantasy's that involve other CDs. Ive decided I would like to be passable enough to get to my planned location but Id rather that location be where other CDs and TG and people that could care less would be. I like being seen but don't really like being alone. Ive basically come to the conclusion that I need another CD friend that i can hang out with from time to time that knows my intentions and does not expect anything, but understands me.

Also my wife knows I dress and is passively excepting, would prob rather I don't and would prob rather i didn't tell her. She is cool about joking about it and likes when i dress from time to time and have crazy sex. However ive decided to keep it to my self for the most part and just do it when I can plan it out and the timing is right instead of all the time or on a whim like i used to.

Sorry for the run on sentences.

Ok so I went to Southern California for about a week and Id planned to dress on my way back, at a stop in Vegas Crap I have to go,, I will finish the story asap.

lol

[GINA-CD]

So far it's interesting. I want the second part.

[kalidonovan]

Sorry for the break.

Ok so anyways, for months I had planned to dress in Vegas on my way back to Utah. My wife knew of my intentions and all was well or so I thought. I picked the MGM grand because it is near to a few bars that I looked up that were ether generally TG/CD friendly or generally ALL TG/CD haha. The one thing i didn't account for was the incredibly long ass walk to where you park your car. I knew this would be hard but I had my mind set, and once we checked in I thought I could handle it. I was wrong.

Ok I'm going to tell you right now, this is a anti-climactic story. So at around 7 my wife wanted to see the Bellagio fountain show, so we walked the 2 huge city blocks, saw the show, walked around a bit, but still didn't get back to the hotel until 10pm or so. This sucked because all I could think about the whole time was my night to come, and how this was eating into it. I don't know about you girls and if you keep your selfs maintained or not, but I find that I get the best results if I go from completely unshaven to shaven, when I shave allot I break out. This is all fine but it takes way longer to get ready, and I didn't have much of time.

What sucked about all of this is that we had just driven from San Diego and we were already tiered to begin with. My fantasy was slowly going down the pipes. I slammed some coffee and hoped for the best. So at about 10:30 I start the process, I quickly loose track of time, and before I know it, it's 1AM.
Sure by this time I am all shaven and have makeup on, but im totally wiped out. I say screw it and push on. I am almost ready, I lastly put on one of my wifes skirts grab my room key, TEST IT, and go out the door. Not more then 10 steps and i realize that this skirt does not like these thigh highs, It's bunching up all over the place really bad. I take a Uturn and change the skirt out. Now the good thing is I had another skirt the bad is its my favorite pin striped short mini skirt (way to much attention but I love it) as i slip it on the bottom button breaks off, at this point I sigh and well, almost give up. With out this button the skirt flares open and you can see my bare leg and the top of my thigh high. Meh I wasn't going to waste away months of anticipation for this. So i did what I could and headed out. Its so late by this time that I don't even know if any of the clubs I wanted to go to are even open, but im determined. I was on then 10nth floor, I got to the elevator and waited. Right then a huge bald guy walked by from behind, stops turns and faces me from like 7 feet away, I could not look him in the face but this area was huge and he turned just to look at me. I like to think im passable but at this distance psh I wasn't feeling it. The elevator opened up and there were a few people in it, the bald guy got in, arg I just lost my nerve and walked past the open door as if i was going to wait for another one. What did I do? Went back to my room broken and barely able to keep my eyes open, and very disappointed.

Basically ive been able to stave off the need to dress by telling my self "just wait its going to be perfect and everything you have dreamed about" then when that dosent happen I get kinda pissed.

My goal will be to finally make it to those bars, but I am going to stay in a hotel off the strip so I can drive. I will also improve my wardrobe and ability to pass, so that I am more confident when it comes to "regular people" seeing me close up.

I also think Id fare much better with another CD friend. But even that is something Im not sure about, but as you can see im pretty willing to do it.

[GINA-CD]

but I know we've all been frustrated at some point. You were right, if you weren't sure about it, it's better to wait for a better ocasion. Don't worry, you'll get the chance to go out on a perfect night and then you'll just laugh of all this situation, trust me. Thanks for sharing your story.

[Nora]

HI Kali:

Unfortunately, what happened to you is not unusual and I hope that it doesn't deter you from trying again. One of the most difficult things we can do is going it alone on our " virgin Excursion". It can be very frightening to go out for the first time by yourself especially is a huge hotel like the MGM. While the MGM does have a T friendly policy that does not mean that the other guests do. Your plan on going out with someone else next time is a good one.
The walk to the parking garage at the MGM is an extremely long one also and many of us use valet but that can be difficult also. I have several suggestions as to where you can stay next time you come in.

Your first real outing should be as easy as possible and result is a wonderful experiences.

Nora

[Annaliese]

As you pass Cedar City wave.

Annaliese

[kalidonovan]

Im, taking another trip to S CA, and will be staying in Vegas Thru Feb 19, and again on the way back Sat Feb 21, This time I hope it goes better. I will also be alone so I can make my schedule how i want to.

Time to go shopping!

[Lori Robins]

We my SO and I are going to Vegas to get married. I hope this doesn't happen to my coz I am the bride!!!!! The key thing doesn't worry me coz we are not planning on going back to the room till the next day!!!

[sfwarbonnet]

If you're at the MGM and want to go anywhere on the Strip, I would suggest the monorail. There is a station at the MGM and the other end is at the Sahara. The Glamour Boutique may be within walkimg distance from the EOL. Also, the Strip is huge, and things are not as close as they seem. The Strip is an ideal environment for a scooter, and most of the hotels rent them (and the monorail is scooter-friendly - just stay off the escalators- LOL). I have ridden it in women's clothes on a scooter with no problems. If you are underdressed, use the men's restroom; if you are fully dressed, use the ladies room; if you are semi-dressed ? The handicapped stalls are usually big enough for a scooter, and using them is ideal if you are wearing clothes usually associated with the opposite sex.

[anna kate]

Kali, When you get to Las Vegas, do your thing. I spent the last part of July beginning of August there (on family business). Went to the Tuscany Hotel for dinner and was received very well. Met up with some local CD at the Blue Ox. Was told that every day is Halloween in Vegas. Other than the heat, I had no trouble anywhere, walking around the strip. Was "made" a number of times, they just smiled. I had a blast, hope you do too. Anna Kate

[kalidonovan]

Looking forward to this trip. Should be a blast.

So I take it no one from "Here" will be in Vegas this weekend?

I'm going to go the the Glam Bo, that should be fun.

[Nora]

HI Kali:

What time is your appointment with the Glamour Boutique? I will try to stop by and say hello. Give my regards to Amy when you go there and check with her if she has a group that is going out. She often takes out groups on Saturday. Also when you go there look for Kathy. Kathy is a friend of mine and active in our group she is usually there on Saturdays and can show you around.

Nora
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Looking forward to this trip. Should be a blast.

So I take it no one from "Here" will be in Vegas this weekend?

I'm going to go the the Glam Bo, that should be fun.[/QUOTE]

[kalidonovan]

Well, shoot i didn't know i needed an appointment, I had just planned to stop by.

However they do have an outing planned on the 21st, a Valentines party of sorts. Only she says on the site that a red dress in mandatory, haha I wish I had such a thing but I don't, so I don't know if it will be ok to go with.

Kali

[nvlady]

Nice to read all these posts about Vegas, I will be staying at the Sahara on May 12 and 13 and I am anxious to see Glamour Botique.
I am totally in the closet, but it sounds like I will feel comfortable doing a bit of shopping there.

[GINA-CD]

nvlady,
Yes you will. I did that one year ago and it was great. Amy was really helpful and made me feel so comfortable about being there. I went out with a corset and a wig (the one in my avatar btw). If I'm not mistaken, the Sahara is really close to Glamour Boutique - walking distance I'd say.

[Persephone]

I will be taking a trip to Cali and will be staying in LV along the way.

Sounds like you're also coming to California (Cali?). Will you be in the Los Angeles area and do you plan to have a chance to go out here too?

[Nora]

NV lady and others - Just to let you know that May 11 is the start of this years Diva Las Vegas. here is the link.

http://geekbabe.com/dlv/

There will be many others also staying at the Sahara.
It runs from May 11 to May 16th this year. If anyone is interested in going they can register now ( No charge - registration is free. You pay only for what you do- Food, hotel etc ).

If you are a newbe and nervous help is available

Anyone interested can contact me.

Nora


Nice to read all these posts about Vegas, I will be staying at the Sahara on May 12 and 13 and I am anxious to see Glamour Botique.
I am totally in the closet, but it sounds like I will feel comfortable doing a bit of shopping there.[/QUOTE]

[sfwarbonnet]

If the Glamour Boutique is within walking distance from the Sahara, it would be a short distance from the monorail eol at the Sahara. How many blocks is it? Is the GB scooter accessible (i.e. sidewalks, curb cuts, and no steps)? I know the Strip and the monorail are, and major hotels rent scooters. Fair warning: the Strip is huge, and things are not as close as they seem.

p.s. The Strip is an ideal environment for a scooter. Even if you don't need one, it saves a lot of steps, and it doesn't matter if the restroom of choice is not the nearest one. If you use a non-unisex restroom, use the handicapped stall so what you are wearing won't matter, and you can "fix" makeup and lipstick in private. All attractions and restaurants we visited were scooter-friendly, and a scooter usually goes to the head of the line if there is one.

[Holly]

Glamour Boutique is 3-4 blocks east from the Sahara. Since they have relocated downstairs in the same building, they are even more accessible than before. Here is a link to their website. Click on "Contact or Visit Us" for more detailed directions.

[Sarah Doepner]

I've been out in Vegas more than any other place on the planet and love it. From The Strip to the strip mall, and from bars and casinos to shops and thrift stores I've never had a bad experience. I've been uncomfortable a couple of times, but only once was based on someone elses behavior as it related to my dressing.
There are a few hotels that have either "Garden Rooms" more of a motel environment; Palace Station, Hooters, Tuscany and Terribles all come to mind. These let you avoid the elevators and the mandatory perp walk through the casino to get to your car.
I believe that if you behave well, and dress appropriately and you shouldn't have a problem. By dressing appropriately I mean if you dress for Clubs, stay in the clubs, don't go to the neighborhood drug store if you can avoid it. I can't wait to return.