I can tell you from first hand experience, first of all do you feel totally comfortable w/your therapist??? If you do then then you have nothing to fear. If on the other hand you do then change therapists!!! Now this is how I told my female therapist---- At the end of one of my weekly sessions I said to her that the next time I see you(next week) I'm going to drop a bomb on you. She just looked at me and said OK, next week then. After leaving the office I mulled over the fact that I opened my mouth to soon and"put foot in mouth AGAIN" Next week came quickly and I said to her----the bomb that I mentioned last week is that I'm a crossdresser!!! No reaction from her!!!! She looked at me & said tell me about it and I did from the very beginning to the present and to what extent. I also told her of my inner most feelings of femininity
and how I would transition if I could. Sorry for the long dialog.

Mollyanne