Whose decision is it?

[LA CINDY LOVE]

As to your original question.

I don't see either as a choice. It just sounds like both of your needs have changed and so the choices you made in the past are no longer applicable.

Does blame really need to be assigned? Is that going to help either of you?

Is absolving either of you of any wrongdoing going to make the decisions you are facing as a couple any easier?

As a married CD I always know that I would never put my cross dressing before my wife, kids or family, you see when I got married I was not a cross dresser that came 4yrs later, most Cd's do not leave there family the family leaves them but not because of there cross dressing it is because they value cross dressing more then there wife, kids and family

They sit back and only think of them self they let there wife decide the family future that way it lets them off the hook so they can tell all that my wife left me because of my cross dressing, but some Cd's go to far and really put a big strain on there marriage, when every a CD talk about body modification, they had this in them since they were a little kid and it just came out as they got older.

A cross dresser who at a very younger age felt they were in the wrong body or just could not under stand why they like to look like a woman really should really get professional help before they get married.


LA CINDY LOVE