Whose decision is it?

[LA CINDY LOVE]

I believe that it would be the person who is Cding that is making the choice. I was given an ultimatum several years ago about my CDing and I chose to hide it as I wasn't doing it anymore. So I do only when I am here by myself. Yeah it is hard, but I chose to love her and my family, friends, etc. And just stay at the level of CDing that I am. I'm guessing that she knows that I still dress, but she is good at keeping it at a "I don't want to know" reasoning.

Not a expert, but I deal with people as a profession and I have discovered that there is two sides to every fence..

I agree with you Paulaluvssz8 the person who is cding is making the choice, if the person feels his cding is causing problem with his marriage and family he needs to make a choice.....if your wife come to you and say I try to live with you and your dressing but I just can not do it any more and gives you the ultimatum you need to make a choice.

A married CD if given a choice between his family and dressing he will choice his family why......... like Paulauvssz8 said he chose to LOVE his wife and family.


LA CINDY LOVE