This is one of those threads that make me glad the Internet came along.
This discussion cuts to the core of what concerns me about being Intersexual (2/3 male, 1/3 female). When I came out to my wife her reaction was initially negative, but it has softened, apparently to an attitude of "Oh well--boys will be girls."
I keep things on the down low and we seem to get along. I don't feel I'm being untruthful.
I agree with whomever said CD'ing was like wanting to go to Lakers games--my wife wouldn't want to be a part of that, either.
Again--great thread & thanks to all of you who have contributed.