Funny but I never thought I was Gay I knew I was Hetro but man I certainly was confused!!! All I knew was I wanted to be a girl!
Kelsy
Funny but I never thought I was Gay I knew I was Hetro but man I certainly was confused!!! All I knew was I wanted to be a girl!
Kelsy
Born female intended
" Don't die with your music still in you!"
I have never considered myself 'gay' unless you consider my desires when i'm dressed. I enjoy looking at all humans for their individual traits of beauty, I just recently started looking at everybody just a little differently men included, iv'e began to notice little things, such as the care put into the grooming of ones nails, or a guy that grooms his eyebrows, etc... things i never noticed before i accepted my fem side. it is an awsome way to see the world. but in no way have i ever been or will i be gay.
Life is short be sexy every chance you get!!!:fairy3:
LOL, you can try to label me any way you like. That is your exercise in futility, not mine.Originally Posted by MissConstrued
But the fact remains, I find how I relate to others sexually, and how others relate to me sexually is dependent on my gender. I find this to be an interesting observation, with possible implications on the vary nature of sexuality and sexual attraction. Shoot, I actually find my sexual chakra's change, and even how I orgasm changes depending on my gender (for example, as a woman I am capable of multiple orgasms, mainly because my chakra has moved away from my genitals).
It's just an interesting observation.
Marla
Horsefeathers. With strengthening of certain muscles, and paying attention to the ejaculatory reflex, most any male is capable of multiple orgasm.
The mind is a very powerful thing, to be sure, and we've barely scratched the surface as a species for what it can do. But it has limits. I daresay you can no more make yourself a woman by the power of your imagination than I can make myself Yoda.
I have never been attracted to men. In all my wildest fantasies its always been girls.
Last edited by Di; 03-07-2009 at 09:19 AM.
Peace through superior dress sense..
As a teenager I was totally messed up. My love of dressing made me think I must be gay but I had no attraction to men.I was totally in awe of the females around me. I wanted in their skirts in a couple of ways. I think I would have gone insane trying to figure it out on my own. The internet was my mental savior, I was able to research and find out I am not the only one. Just one of many that has to keep everything somewhat hidden from most of the people around me. With this forum and other sources I have been able to come to terms with it and my mind is in a better place with the whole thing.
With that I would like to thank the members here for their thoughts on all subjects because of you I am learning something all the time.
Trying to come to grips with this lovely thing called Crossdressing.
Thankful there is a place to ask for help.
Nope. Can't do it, have no desire. Gay, by definition, never been with a man while I was in drab (began dressing before sex was an issue) No attraction to men in dresses, masculine or feminine. Hey buster! there's only room for one girl here, and yer lookin at her.
Yup, gay by definition, consider myself a str8 female with a difference. Might just be a head trip, but since I have stopped worrying about it, I am a lot happier, and I just love being Kelly.
I basically chose to open myself up to being with men the more I realized what my real-world prospects were with women.
I can fairly easily describe what I am. I am a straight male with androgynous tastes. I also under-dress constantly and dress fully on occasion. I am also a man who feels that he understands the female side of most disagreements more than most, and who wishes that society would just chill out and let everyone just be themselves. See easy!
Well, by the time I was 13 I had been dressed up and been 'the girl' in a sexual relationship for many years, so I kind of thought that's what I was. I don't know if I could have classified myself as homosexual, because I really thought that I was going to grow up and eventually BE a girl at that point. For the next couple of years after that, I gradually realized that I had no sexual interest in males, and for a while I thought I was a transsexual. It took much longer for that concept to pass. Eventually I came to understand that I'm just a heterosexual male attracted to women, but that I will forever be stuck with the underlying feeling that I'm supposed to behave, dress, and relate intimately as a female. It really sucks, that.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
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