I think everyone here feels that way, most have just addressed the other issues being discussed though and assumed this as a given.
I think we all know what its like to be tempted, as well as being cheated on.
I've been cheated on so many times I swore I'd never trust another woman, then I met my SO and just knew that I couldCan't say my early picks were smart choices though either
I see what the OP is trying to say and rationalize but its only digging a deeper hole with alot here. Like I said, my advice is for the OP to drop the cd'ing for a day, have his SO put down the novels and re-ignite their relationship.