You're getting a lot of flack here for the amount of time u spend on line, versus that spent with your wife. HOWEVER, I would disregard ALL of that, if I were u. No one here knows u or anything about your relationship! Many seem to be projecting THEIR experiences, and guilt, on to u.
Having been married and divorced, and watching so many friends go thru the same thing, I couldn't POSSIBLY presume to give u, or ANYONE I'm NOT familiar with, marital advice!
JoAnne, what DOES concern me, is your obvious defensiveness. I think maybe, " Thy protest too much"!
The other thing is, u seem so darn sure of yourself. Like your "S" doesn't stink, and u CAN'T make mistakes!:brolleyes:
One thing I've learned in my 60 years on this planet; everyone makes mistakes of commission, and omission. Denying you could POSSIBLY be making some in your life rite now, mite be in ITSELF, a grave error!
