Jolan - I wasn't trying to rubbish your experience - I'm sorry if you took it that way.
What I was trying to point out was that you expanded your experience to encompass all the rest of us - and if you spend only a little time reading threads here, you'll see it simply isn't the case for everybody, as you said?
Perhaps you should consider travelling and experiencing other places to try and find somewhere where you are not automatically 'hated' - such hatred usually goes together with a poverty of education, IME?