StephanieT said - "My wife then said she had a real problem with this CD."
Just for clarification, are we talking specifically about this CD or about CD in general?
StephanieT said -"I guess I will be in the closet with my wife forever."
Get a different wife. I'm serious. A marriage where you have to live a lie rather than be accepted for who you are isn't a marriage. Start by trying to gradually educate your wife s-l-o-w-l-y. But be prepared for the fact that sooner or later she'll turn round and ask if there's something you're trying to tell her because all the clues will be adding up in her mind. But sooner or later you have to live life for yourself as well as others (dual-life balance).
