to all the posts I have read about the internal struggles and the devides between our masculin and feminine sides. Something was not fitting into place for me and I couldn't figure out what it was. So after alot of thought, analyzing, and discussion with my SO, I have discovered what felt odd for me. It was the "Alter-ego" way of thinking. I know I do not have multiple personalities nor do I pretend to be someone else when I am dressed, and in know way am I saying that anyone else does, I am just saying that for me dressing is simply another way for me to expressing another, softer, creative, sexier side of who I already am. So, with this new revelation, I have decided that I no longer need a seperate name for dressing. I am going to use my given name, Dannie, short for Daniel. I want to say again, that in no way am I saying that anyone else who uses a different name or has an alter-ego has multiple personalities or are pretending, I am saying that is how I felt about me.
Dannie