Hi Gabrielle,
I think your observations are valid. CD'ers come from all walks of life and many different settings, and we all have challenges to overcome because of who we are. I think that having an accepting spouse/SO goes a long way towards "happiness" in our lives. Also having full self acceptance of who WE are can bring much happiness and fulfillment as well.
Being transgendered completes me, and blends my male and female sides together both spiritually, as well as emotionally, and I wouldn't have it any other way. As for an explanation as to "why", I am expecting to have that answer when I pass from this world into the next, although the importance of gaining that knowledge has faded with age.
Celebrate your life, each and every day and those around you will benefit as well.
Suzanne
