If we GG's could say anything/ The good and the Bad

[steftoday]

I missed this thread altogether until just today. Way to go Di, and all those that contributed and responded. This was probably one of the best threads I've ever seen here.
Thank you!!

[DinaMature]

I missed this thread altogether until just today. Way to go Di, and all those that contributed and responded. This was probably one of the best threads I've ever seen here.
Thank you!!

In the scope of things, I'm a new comer here... and can honestly attest that I didn't fully know all about myself until some months ago... much of the spirit of this thread I've all ready garnered from reading the general posts.

Having said all that, I think this thread should somehow be required reading and that the CD community should embrace what the GG's have said here.

Deception and selfishness are traps for this lifestyle ... that's been apparent. I know others have been sharply ostracized for throwing that ''selfish" accusation around but I have to agree.

My own GG/SO loves me in part for how I've worshipped the ground she walks on, how gratefull I've always been that she is in my life. I'd hate to think my own interests have ever interfered in the mutual feeling we've shared heretofore.

I've just come out to her and she was immediately supportive and accepting. With the lessons in this thread taken to heart, I hope I carry forward with prudence... not taking my freedom as a free pass to rush headlong to disaster.