Originally Posted by
Di
Fab/ GG anonymous 15
The good: I love your sensitivity and compassion.
I love the diversity in the bedroom.
I love having a girlfriend to see chick flicks with.
I love being able to rely on your taste and knowledge about female fashion.
It's cool to have the option of borrowing your stuff if I need to.
The bad: I feel awkward about your long nails in guy mode, even though I know that your appearance has no bearing on me.
It hurts me sometimes when I feel you would rather have something pretty for you than for me. This is the part of a traditional relationship I am working on letting go, but it is hard.
I feel threatened by your fascination with other women. It makes me feel as if something is lacking in me. I am not as fascinated by other men.
The good and the bad together: Sometimes I need a take charge kinda guy in my life when I feel overwhelmed and I just want to feel protected. But I also know it is good for me to rely on myself.
