How many on this site consider themselves TGirls as oppsoed to CDers...???

[Nicki B]

I take it as meaning transexual...like me. it someone wants to split hairs,more power to them.

When you work to appear female.. or as some say pass then I see you as a Tgirl.

i think the fantasy of being tg sounds like fun
but in reallity if i were tg and started that jeorney
the magic would end and what then
for me is deffinatly a fun thing ,a cder
i am what i am and love it

Wow.. Yet again, divided by a common language. :rolleyes:

I've never met people before who define TGirl as equivalent to TS - it's always, IME, been intended as a wide, catch-all term for everybody? The T, btw, can stand for whatever you want - the whole point is, it's intended to be inclusive.

I guess I am just a CD.

My highlight, above - to me, this is precisely the problem with the way labels get used - to imply a hierarchy and exclude people.

[Nicki B]

I think I can pull off dressing enfemme pretty good...so that being the case and I am being told by a few people that "I'm more than just across dresser...I'm a Tgirl" do I want to kick this up a notch or two....do I want to take hormones which my understanding is it will make my hips and but more fuller and woman like...give me some increase in my breast where I can get cleavage naturally it will smooth my skin and amybe do afew other things...

So - what's your definition of TGirl? It sounds more like it's something very close to 'a woman'.

I will never have another relationship with a woman, not because I don't want to but because I am a non fuctioning male. Am illness 10 years ago left me incapale of being able to do the manly thing..so what woman would be interested in me. I'm not interested in totally transitionng and have the plumbing removed because I am not opposed to my maleness...I'm just thinking of improving on my female presentation...

To be honest about the whole thing I'm not sure exaclty what I am suppsoe to be in reference to "your a TGirl"....is it something I am not yet???? or is it something I'm trying to go to... a point I'm trying to reach and I need to do soemthing new to reach it i.e. hormones????

Forgive me, but who are you doing this for and why? Do you want to make yourself more like a woman because you can't be a man, successfully, by your definition?

Perhaps that requires a different solution...

I want to sit to think to ponder and to talk so if any of you can take the time to sit with me and be a sounding board to me I'd appreciate it....it's a journey for me with no guide, no mentor, no friend...and I guess I need one of those in my life...for Steve has been cast aside and Stephanie has been rejected...so now I need to know and discover who is left...so I can become who I need to become now....

I hope you take these questions in a constructive way - that's how they're intended.

[patricia 402]

im just a confused littel girl that looks kike a guy

[Sherry-Stephanie]

So - what's your definition of TGirl? It sounds more like it's something very close to 'a woman'.

Honestly I don't know....it's all over the board but it's somethign above CD and below a surgically transformed male to female I guess....where I fit in the equation at this moment I don't know....

[PaulaJaneThomas]

It sounds more like it's something very close to 'a woman'.

Isn't that a Tea Lady? :D (can't find a photo of Mrs Overall though )

As for labels, Dual-Role Gender Variant does me very nicely :D

[Sophie_C]

I think of myself as being "female gendered" regardless of hormones or organs, therefore I tend not to think of myself as a crossdresser. Caroline to me is not another personality or a costume that I can change into and out of. She's who I am regardless of how I'm dressed. Tho, I still like my male body and have no desire for any sort of surgery or physical change.

T-girl or Transgendered is about right for me.

I'm sort of along the same lines, although obviously did not transition at a young enough age (it just right before the internet). IMO, unless you have unbelievably feminine genetics or transition as, at least around being a teenager, you're not going to look female worth a damn, and therefore when you attempt to transition are not going to EVER experience living as one.

But, for the record, I have been consciously aware I was a woman, not a crossdresser, since I was probably 12 or so. The clothing has always been a comfort thing, not something that i'd get off on, hence the reason I don't need them in the way crossdressers do. I know what I am. I have a feminine nature to myself, that no matter what I do, I can not escape it, shake it, or change it. It's me.

[Marisa_M]

I feel that I am transgendered, rather than strictly a crossdresser. There is a part of me that really wishes I had had the fortune of being female rather than male. The feeling never really goes away, and stays with me every day and at most times. I have decided that I will not pursue transition and SRS, though. Things are just going to have to stay the way they are physically. I'm too steeped into the life I have now to make such radical alterations to it. But it is an omnipresent regret that I can never experience true womanhood.

It's amazing...this is EXACTLY how I feel.
I'm sure I will be a great woman in my next life. I only need to be patient and wait

[Juanita O]

I feel that I am transgendered, rather than strictly a crossdresser. There is a part of me that really wishes I had had the fortune of being female rather than male. The feeling never really goes away, and stays with me every day and at most times. I have decided that I will not pursue transition and SRS, though. Things are just going to have to stay the way they are physically. I'm too steeped into the life I have now to make such radical alterations to it. But it is an omnipresent regret that I can never experience true womanhood.

I totally agree with you

[Patty-Fay]

Unlike some of you, I don't feel the least bit trapped in the wrong body. I enjoy my male body, but also enjoy occasionally becoming a woman.

That being said, I will say that I have had breast-envy from the time I was quite young. As young as 6, I would pray to God every day to let me grow breasts. He never answered my prayers, so I had to buy some when I got old enough (and had enough money).

[kristinacd55]

It's amazing...this is EXACTLY how I feel.
I'm sure I will be a great woman in my next life. I only need to be patient and wait

Marla, Gennifer, & Marisa, I'm on board with ya'll!

[LilSissyStevie]

I'm a fairy, sissy, pansy, Nancyboy or whatever you want to call it. It's the other gender whose name we dare not speak. I think of it as being to the left of female.

[Jonianne]

I crossdress because I like to identify "with" females, but I don't identify "as" a female. I am male, I have never thought otherwise, but on the emotional level I feel closer to females than males. Mentaly and physically I identify as a male. I don't think there is a hard and fast defination for me or probably anybody here. Probably a little more than just a crossdresser, but that is close enough for me.

[Nicki B]

Why does it have to be 'above' or 'more than' a CD??

That so often repeated notion of a hierarchy is so VERY devisive..


Surely by now we know there aren't hard and fast lines between people - which is why 'transgender' is so often used to cover everybody?

[Gabrielle Hermosa]

How many on this site consider themselves TGirls as oppsoed to CDers...???

I usually refer to myself as a crossdresser, but sometimes I use t-girl or part time t-girl instead.

Honestly, I'm having trouble with the terminology and figuring out exactly what it means. There seems to be some debate, or at least different usages of terms.

As I understand it, a t-girl, or trans-girl, is a genetic male with an unaltered body (or mostly unaltered) who dresses up like and tries to look completely female in outward appearance either part-time or full-time.

Of the self-proclaimed "t-girls" I communicate with, all have been people who live their daily lives as men, and transform into their feminine appearance in their free time. That is a good description of how I do it.

I try to appear completely female (even been working on my femme-voice) when I crossdress. I often just dress in clothes (without makeup) because of time constraints in my busy life, but my preference and desire is to go full makeup, nails - the works, and appear as female as possible.

[Miranda09]

I usually refer to myself as a crossdresser, but sometimes I use t-girl or part time t-girl instead.

Honestly, I'm having trouble with the terminology and figuring out exactly what it means. There seems to be some debate, or at least different usages of terms.

As I understand it, a t-girl, or trans-girl, is a genetic male with an unaltered body (or mostly unaltered) who dresses up like and tries to look completely female in outward appearance either part-time or full-time.

Of the self-proclaimed "t-girls" I communicate with, all have been people who live their daily lives as men, and transform into their feminine appearance in their free time. That is a good description of how I do it.

I try to appear completely female (even been working on my femme-voice) when I crossdress. I often just dress in clothes (without makeup) because of time constraints in my busy life, but my preference and desire is to go full makeup, nails - the works, and appear as female as possible.

I'm in the same frame of mind as you Gabrielle. Not sure what I would refer to myself as, CDer or TGer, but right now I'm not concerned with labels. Just exploring my feminine side in any way I can and have some fun with it.

[JulieK1980]

Well if I was forced to carry a label, I'm fairly positive I would classify in the realm of TG, but I prefer to just be me..

[Sherry-Stephanie]

The reason I proposed this question is it was brought to my attention of late that I'm not a CDer as I am a Tgirl...

The way it was explained to me is a cross dresser wears women's clothing and looks basically like a man in a dress....doesn't try to really conceal his masculine side while dressed....but the Tgirl is one that not only tries to look femine but also tries to totally erases her male identy in the process and then goes out and is out in the public as a girl...be it shopping clubbing or whatever...

So I got thinking ..am I a crossdresser or am I aTgirl...

Honestly for me I feel like I'm a bi gendered person who has a male side and female side and when either one comes out I tried to authentica either one as best as I can....CDing seem to be the elsser of what I am now....I think I'm trying to become TGirl and be able to be out and about as Stephanie...will I go beyond the Tgirl aspect and use any enhancements?? Probably not..age and cost being prohibited...

But I just wanted to see how you all looked at this question/topic...

[Joni Marie Cruz]

I usually refer to myself as a crossdresser, but sometimes I use t-girl or part time t-girl instead.

Honestly, I'm having trouble with the terminology and figuring out exactly what it means. There seems to be some debate, or at least different usages of terms.

As I understand it, a t-girl, or trans-girl, is a genetic male with an unaltered body (or mostly unaltered) who dresses up like and tries to look completely female in outward appearance either part-time or full-time.

Of the self-proclaimed "t-girls" I communicate with, all have been people who live their daily lives as men, and transform into their feminine appearance in their free time. That is a good description of how I do it.

I try to appear completely female (even been working on my femme-voice) when I crossdress. I often just dress in clothes (without makeup) because of time constraints in my busy life, but my preference and desire is to go full makeup, nails - the works, and appear as female as possible.

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Thank you so much, Gabrielle. This is exactly how I feel about describing myself as a t-girl. Even though I'm not TS and have no plans for SRS, I do feel as though the feminine aspects of my personality and psyche far outweigh the masculine side. When I'm Joni I do my very utmost best to be as much like a girl as I possibly can given the rather poor quality of the raw materials I have to work with. This has nothing whatsoever to do with "fooling" anyone or passing as such, it's just how I feel I need things to be. I may be a part-time girl, but I don't want to look only partly like a girl.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[Tasha McIntyre]

CD all the way for me.
Other than loving to dress, I don't have a girly in me at all

Cheers

Tash

[Marcia Blue]

[SIZE="2"]I call myself a CD. I really love all things fem and to dress, but I also enjoy my guy side to much, to be more than a CD.[/SIZE]

[gender_blender]

I don't consider myself a CDer. I identify as TG.

[kellycan27]

Wow.. Yet again, divided by a common language. :rolleyes:

I've never met people before who define TGirl as equivalent to TS - it's always, IME, been intended as a wide, catch-all term for everybody? The T, btw, can stand for whatever you want - the whole point is, it's intended to be inclusive.



My highlight, above - to me, this is precisely the problem with the way labels get used - to imply a hierarchy and exclude people.

What are you rolling your eyes about? Why do you even care what I call myself. You're the one who's hung up on labels and hierachys and excluding people... I don't care about all that crap I am me and I am doing my thing. I couldn't care less what other people call themselves or how they describe themselves.... It has no effect on me, so why would I even care? Why do you feel that you have to take issue with just about anybody that posts anything?Like you are right and everyone else is wrong.

[PatriciaT]

Fascinating topic and I was surprised to see how many of us are on the TG side.

I like this statement:

After many years of contemplation, understanding and self awareness, I can say that for me, it is far more than "just about the clothes" so I cannot simply consider myself a crossdresser.


For me too it's much more than just the clothes. When I am en femme I feel I am expressing and enjoying the femals aspect of my personality. I feel a kind of release from being limited to just my male aspect. I have normal male interests but female ones too.

Still, given a choice, I feel more comfortable and natural en femme 7/24.

[Jessica Who]

Labels, labels, labels...the great debate rages on.

I used to despise the idea of someone calling me transgendered until I really stopped to think about it, now I can say that I am tg with pride. I am a crossdresser and not a transsexual, to be clear, but tgirl would be a label that I would also identify with.

[DisKreeT]

I'm just a bona fide crossdresser me, i enjoy being a guy to much to give it up

I enjoy dressing in feminine clothing when i can, but not enough to give up what i have already as a guy.

That's pretty much how I feel right there. I'm just a guy who gets a big thrill out of what I do. :D