Big decision on dressing up in public, any advice?

[Samantha Girl]

Iwearstockings said " if you want to go out, threm do it. Its liberating and whats the worst that will happen?
You go for it . of you're feeling its the right thing then dont think too much about it and just do it!!!!!!!!!! "

Bloody knee/elbow are so far the worst thing that can happen! :p But you're right, Just go for it!

Joann you rode the subway! Girl you are Awesome! Sooo not ready for that!

Stefanie that's an amazing description of the experience Just to simply walk down the street as Samantha, I'm enthralled by how it will all feel, workin my hip swing and ass wiggle! Maybe this weekend coming up, maybe! :p

Thanks Joni! I haven't done a formal count but I'm pretty sure the "Go for it Girl" crowd is winning! :D

[msginaadoll]

Well Samantha, you are a heck of a lot braver than I am. I think you must not be as shy as you say. You will definitely get looks when you go out. Your look is one that is meant to stand out, and you definitely will. That is not a bad thing but is something to prepare mentally for. The world is not always kind and people are not always so accepting. If you go out in public dressed like your pic i suggest you be prepared for the worst at least comment wise and hope for the best. I know part of the thrill of dressing can be just the plain rush of look at me. The problem is when people are not as happy to see you as u want. As said if you do venture forward hold your head up, ignore the possible words and have a good time. Just be aware of how you present yourself and how people can react.

[Samantha Girl]

I totally understand what you're saying msginaadoll, I will totally stand out! I don't care what people think, but you're right, need to prepare merntally for the jerks out there Thanks for worrying for me girl, I am touched!

[Samantha Girl]

I have become obsessed with going out dressed up lately. Sooo obsessed I can't stop thinking about it!! I almost went out for another drive last night, but it was so late it was starting to get light out so I bailed! :p

Considering dressing up and taking a drive tonight, hopefully with better timing, still scared as hell though! That thread Melissa put up about getting pulled over is not helping my mental state! :p

P.S. Apparently I shared too much info last night, one of my posts was deleted! Sooo embarrassing! I apologize for my inappropriateness, I'm sooo naughty!

[Samantha Girl]

Hey girls

Me and my fiance are going out! We couldn't find any events in Jersey we wanted to go to. There's a CD/TG party really close to my house but we don't know anybody and it's REALLY close to my house! :p

Sooooo, we are going to NYC! :D Don't know how long we'll stay. Don't think we'll go into anyplace. I think we'll just walk around the village for a bit... for as long as I can handle it! :p

Got a new black dress, my 1st "dress" actually, got some new black fishnets and panties and of course my black knee high boots! :D I shaved EVERYWHERE! Aaand me and my girl picked up this cool black eyeshadow, put it on Anne Hathaway style, HOT! I even did my hair somewhat conservatively, well, for me! :D It's only a little big, slightly teased, I swear! :p

My girl is coming after the sun goes down in about an hour. Gonna have to slip out my window, should be interesting!

Afterwards there will be some more sexy fun, I'll leave that to the imagination! Otherwise I'll get in trouble again! Wish me luck!

[Alice Torn]

When i first went out, drove to the Washington stste coast, and went out to gas stations the first night, got pulled over by a cop, the next night, then, went walking around in 4" heels, and a sexy dress, around four towns, the next day, where hundreds of folks noticed me. Some embarrassing situations, but, I was glad, that I got it all in. Low heels, or flats were good advice! I am six feet six, and stood out like a sore thumb, in high heels. I think I wanted to give shocj effect! Good advice from all, here, to you.

[Kristy 56]

If you're going to go for it,NYC is the place. I worked in NYC for 31 years,and believe me no one is going to say a thing. Survival in NY consists of MYOB, avoid eye contact at all costs,and staying out of someone elses space. If it hasn't been seen in NY,it's because it hasn't been done. The stories I could tell . Go out and have yourself a day and night of fun.

[trannie T]

Wherever you choose to go for your first outing you will have two emotions, first you will be terrified, that should soon pass and you will be asking yourself why you did not do this a long time ago.
When you go to Washington State there is a good group in Seattle, Emerald City, you may want to check them out.

[Jaclyn NM]

The first time I went out dressed, was in Denver, and I went out solo to do some shopping. The worst part was the nervousness, and anxiety leading up to it. Once I was out and about, that all melted away, and Jaclyn took over. While some people might have given me a look, I never noticed, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself. It was and is the highlight of my crossdressing. After that, the next few times were relatively easy, and also uneventful. In NYC, you should have no problem.

[dawnmarrie1961]

As with all things there is always a "first" time.And there is no better place for that then the Big Apple. You are in for a big "Rush". That feeling of total excitement!

I envy you that!:Angry3: I've been out for so long that I've forgotten how it felt the 1st time.

Good luck and enjoy.

Be Smart. Be safe.

[Fab Karen]

Hey girls

Sooooo, we are going to NYC! :D Don't know how long we'll stay. Don't think we'll go into anyplace. I think we'll just walk around the village for a bit... for as long as I can handle it! :p



My girl is coming after the sun goes down in about an hour.

Is she a vampire?


If Liza Minelli can deal with NY, so can you. Though you might find just walking the streets a bit boring- get a drink or some dinner & relax.

[erickka]

Samantha, I see a lot of mixed responses here, so I'll put in my:2c:. Only you will know when you are ready to go public. I can tell you that once you do get the courage to do so, it only gets easier and more natural feeling. As for doing it in NYC, that is one place that has such diverse cultures, you may not even be noticed. Depends where you are going im Washington state, but if it's a small town, well, you know how they are.

[Samantha Girl]

Good advice Lisa, as always, Don't know that it's possible for me to dress down! though

Wow Louise! You really got the full experience huh?! :p Can't imagine!

You're so right Kristy, should've thought about that, I got shy! :p

Thanks for the info Trannie T, unfortunately I let the terror seize me a bit!

Aaaw Dawnmarrie, missin that terrified feeling huh, I got plenty to spare! :D

Fab Karen?! NYC streets boring? Never! "Is she a vampire?" NO... I am

Ericka, yeah I live in a small town so I know what you mean. Funny though cause I feel like hey, I'm movin across the country, it's a new start ya know. So I'm thinkin I'm going to try to not care what people think anymore, screw'em!

So here's the story...

OK, so I sorta did it, sorta. I couldn't bring myself to walk around, so terrified, of what I really don't know. We drove around NYC & the village, we parked for a while (my girl was trying to "lovingly" push me) but I couldn't do it! But I did however get outta the car for about a minute. Felt the NYC breeze in my hair, futzed with and fixed my dress aaaand got back in. I'm a little disappointed in myself, but I couldn't do it, there were sooooo many people in the village on Saturday night, I just wussed out! :p I feel like I need to go again before I leave, still got a week and a half, anybody know of a good bar for us girls in the village?