What to do when there is conflict

[kellycan27]

Not the way I see it. She's the one who's out of line. Just friends is just friends, and if she can't deal with that now; if she can't bring herself to trust you when you've been honest with her... well, it isn't going to get any easier down the road. If I were in your shoes, the wedding would be on indefinite hold until she gets her insecurities under control. It's very difficult to live with someone constantly looking for things to accuse you of.

Your friend, however, shouldn't be saying things like that to your fiancee. Sounds to me like she still carries a torch for you, and is well aware of the wedge she's driving.

I would have to agree with MC on this. Your friend didn't do you any favors by saying she'd go out with you... Jealousy and insecurity can make for a rough relationship.... go slow.
BTW.. if she ever asks..."Do these pants make me look fat?" Be very careful how you answer.... Good luck, hope things work out for you.
Kel