Everyone is special in their own way, some for the good, others not so good. But I feel we have an extra special gift in life because we are alot more "in touch" with ourselfs and we are able to enjoy both the male and female sides to life , something most people are too closed off to embrace. I can be as hardcore male as needed (got the scares and the t-shirt) or as soft and careing as anyone could ever want. I feel this gives me a complete life instead of just half of one! Well, that just my:2c: worth! Kaitlin