Well ladies, thank you very much for all of those replies. I have to say I thought this post would be long gone.
One of my reasons in asking is that my partner has had ample opportunity throughout the holiday period to dress every day if he wanted to. He lost his job in January so is home most of the time. The kids have been off with their friends on holidays so the house has been empty. We live in the middle of no where so whats stopping him. Well you tell me. He has been living in a 100%socially acceptable environment and he's maybe dressed 3 times in 6 weeks. When I asked him why he hadn't made the effort he said probably because he knew he could do any time he wanted.
Other times when the kids are home and he doesn't get the opportunity he starts to crave some dressing time. Does that make sense to you cause sure as hell doesn't to me.
Any way thanks ladies
Bev