I spent the weekend of my 40th birthday en femme at a Pocono weekend. When I got home, I knew I HAD to tell my mom.
She had the perfect answer from the Bible: "Male and female created He them." (Genesis 5:2).
The next day, she took me (in drab) to see the movie: Tootsie.
Then she bought me a gold chain that I could wear en femme or in drab.
A boy's best friend is his mother.