If you "don't really care," then why on earth does it matter to you what other people think. It sounds to me that you are not as yet able to accept yourself and have doubts about your own gender expression. The last thing this community needs is more division and competition and that is exactly what the title of your thread is suggesting. Life is not static; it is always changing. When I was younger, I wanted to be a fireperson, a soldier, an actor, why I even studied for a brief time to become an optometrist. I eventually wound up going into commercial broadcasting and eventually electronic technical services. Even today in my advanced years, I am still discovering new things and new interests. So why would it be any different in this community, as we start exploring gender diversity, that our outlooks and self-perceptions of who we are would't change? My :2c:.
