Oh well . . .

[JulieC]

I started to explain that since I was gonna fly as Kimberly, it takes a bit longer to get ready, and she interrupted me.
"Oh, I get it. That's more important to you than we are!" and then she turned and walked out of the room. ... She told me two or three times "I'm sorry" as I put my stuff away and put on my guy clothes, but now I feel like a freak again

My marriage is incredible, and I love my wife dearly. She is 100% supportive of me crossdressing.

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage, and we constantly work at it.

A problem we have is that my wife might get upset with me about X, and instead want me to do Y. Then, if I stop doing X and do Y instead, she'll be upset for a different reason.

I've complained about this before; it's a no win scenario. If I do what she wants, she gets upset. If I don't do what she wants, she gets upset.

Thankfully, to date, X has never been crossdressing. I don't want to know what it feels like. I'm sorry you're facing it Kim.

[Ediosa]

Kim,
Nothing against you. Love your stories and love the person you are. So, take this at heart. You are sounding like your wife right now. Hell, you are sounding like my ex-wife. Therefore, you are acting like your wife was when she stated that statement. My lord, as my male side will say, "Get a pair". She did say that she was sorry 2 or 3 times. She understood she said something wrong and that it hurt you. She understands that, so take it for what it's worth. Plus, it wasn't about crossdressing, it was about her not being with you. You have no idea how many times I had to hear that same statement from my ex-wife that I didn't want to be with her when I had to go to work early, while I was in the Navy. It was my job for Pette's sake and our financial means. After calling her out on that, she just basically told me that she just wants to be with me. Makes perfect sense.

Your reaction is way, way and way overboard. I know we are crossdresser and we are trying to emulate a woman, but sometimes it becomes way to much. Think it though, accept her apology, tell her how you felt, and then hug her, kiss her and love her. That will make it the best.

Sorry so hard, but sometimes a girl has to hear it once in a while. :D


Elizabeth