I would tell you that most if not all the 'Goth' clubs or clubs that support 'Goth' or themed nights I know of completely tolerate / support CDing and Trans lifestyles. See my posts:

A story about the supporting nightclub I frequent:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=109154

And then sample outfits (for examples):
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=110652

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=112558

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=109121

...and so on and on.

There are also a few others on here that pull off the Goth look pretty well too, so I'm not just tooting my own horn; just start browsing the picture collections to find them.

Have fun! :D