My SO told me right up front that she was open minded, believed that our brains are our (by far) largest sexual organs, and at our first meeting, she noticed the waitresses cute butt well before I did.
Her open mind, and her intensity, are the reasons why we had lunch to begin with.
I say look for an open mind, and for someone who will challenge you intellectually every day. As long as you are both willing to win some of the time, you'll probably be OK, and just let things evolve.
One of my best bosses, who was fron Ireland, while I was in a period of deep streess, told me:
"You can't stop the tide from coming in".
I've been trying to do that for way too long...
I hope this helps!
Meghan
