[QUOTE=Michelle_Sullivan;1882992]I'm never a guy in a dress..... Though sometimes I get asked "Are you a girl or a guy?" Question is, would you (anyone reading this) consider that a compliment or an insult...?
My take is it's a compliment as the person has either spotted my adams apple, my prominent brow or heard my voice all croaky (particularly after smoke machines in night clubs have had their turn on my voice.) ie something gave away the fact I wasn't born to a female body, but otherwise they would never have guessed.
My ex's take is its an insult, but that was her, and all about her...
I'd have to agree with your ex on this one. I would never take that as a compliment.......
