That's probably going to be an issue, unfortunately. Therapists who don't have TG experience usually can't relate to TG issues and identities, so they try to find answers based on the areas of expertise they did study. Perhaps a bias is in there, too, I'm not sure. From the medical journals I've read, though, there seems to still be a trend of non-TG-specialized therapists being very unwilling to help a TG person transition if it "encourages" bisexuality or homosexuality. (i.e. They'd be more apt, if at all, to okay your T letter if you are attracted strictly to men rather than women or men and women.) Either way, when they haven't been trained or educated in what you need, they won't be able to truly hear what you have to say.
I agree with everybody here who suggested getting a second opinion. I find that highly important to do. Also, look for TG-specialized therapists even outside of your area. A long trip several times will probably be a moot point to you in regards to being able to get on T.
Best of luck to you and it was nice meeting you, Kodi!![]()