im married and when i first told her about my cding she wanted no part of it she was a baptist preachers kid so she was raised thinking it was a sin well she started reading about it and it took a few yrs with small steps she is accepting of it and very protective of me when we are out talking is the best advice i can offer oh by the way we will be celabrating our 20th aniversery this year so good luck if you have any questions pm me and i will try to help