My really big news!

[carolinoakland]

yep, sounds like you are there. Ready to give yourself permission to be happy. You've waited to long to spend any more time being unhappy with who you are! Carol

Have you considered this marriage was doomed from the start considering your mind set: [...] since I now had a partner I could dress up and enjoy instead.

You weren't looking for a partner sounds like you were looking for Barbie instead.


That said maybe you both will have a real shot at happiness apart.

Yippie happy days to you hon.

Also, living vicariously through the life of a woman is one of the manifestations of a TS. I did. Carol