Hello Keri!
I too am in a bind. My wife hates the fact that I CD, sees me as less of a man now, and wants her "old" man back. I explain that I'm the same person I always was and still think of her the same. She replies that I'm not the same to her. I'm not "normal". It is a bad place we are in. Your idea of just going back to hiding your dressing and not showing her anything is what I am doing. At least if I get caught now, she does really know.
