Right, so your SO points out the pink fog situation, which I will define as being your female self to the exclusion of your male responsibilities in a partnership, either by failing to do things or be emotionally available to her.
SHE DID NOT ASK YOU TO STOP DRESSING!
What she meant, and you chose to ignore, was a request for the balance to return to your relationship. She has been supportive and understanding and you repay her by dressing very frequently and not communicating emotionally with her, and talking non-stop about your female self. You wouldn't put up with this kind of behaviour from her!
So the way out of the pink fog criticism is to make sure you attend to all those jobs you've been promising to do, resume a social life with your SO and be so beyond any criticism of the role she thought you were going to perform before she accepted your other self.
Is that really so difficult?!!
