Pink Fog is being so caught up in your CDing side of life that it interferes with normal judgement. An example might be buying another pair of boots (really cute boots too) but you had to borrow the cash from your kids lunch money. That sort of thing! Working at a place that doesn't understand or tolerate CDing and pushing the envelope there by wearing nail polish or lip gloss.
In life sometimes we need to have restraint on our femme side especially if we are not out yet.
I hope that these examples help. Remember there are others around you that you care for. Don't screw things by being so absorbed in your femme side that you neglect them.
Edy