Quote Originally Posted by Samantha Girl View Post
I've also noticed in a lot of CD coming out stories SOs get very upset/hung up on the deception more so than the actual CDing. My girl was more upset about the lying as well.

This is right in a lot of cases. It's not the cding that causes the main problem but, the being lied to and the feeling of not being trusted.

Say sommat before things get serious, let her do some research and most of all talk to her about it.