I have to agree with both Keri and Kerren. When I got married 28 years ago there was no internet. I hadn't even heard the term Crossdresser. I just thought that I had a "womans underwear fetish" and that it would go away after I got married.
I do believe that I would have told her before we got married IF I had understood the realities of crossdressing better.
I absolutly believe that we should tell potential spouses before marrage.
Oh well, 20/20 hindsight...
