Well this is the sort of thing I need to know. So then I shouldn't go to TG events because those primarily attract CDers who think of themselves as women and they would be offended by sexual objectification? And instead should use that other website to find local interested parties?

It's very confusing, because, for example, in the picture galleries members tell each other how hot and sexy they look etc. and it's kind of hard to not think that a person isn't trying to be a sex object when wearing, say, thigh-high boots and a miniskirt.

At any rate, I'll stop with the posting, and my apologies to anyone I've offended. I'm just ignorant, that's all, didn't know the right places to go online to find out more. I don't regret posting here because I have gotten up to speed on a lot of things I'm going to need to know, and I thank you all.

*lurks* :tt: