That would be me!
Well of course that would be up to the TG.
As for finding women interested, I think a good litmus test would be renting the movie "Stage Beauty" and watching it together. Of course moralistic at the end, he chooses to be a "man", but that movie was what first made me consider, hmm, something going on there. So if sheyour bones after watching it, that would be a good sign!
I have a feeling I will be using that smiley a lot here.