I was gonna keep my mouth shut but the effort required was getting to the point that I may have been dangerously close to an aneurysm.
Welcome Cordgrass. You rock.
You seem like a feisty broad with brain power to spare and I know you don't need my support but I'm giving it anyway.
Please don't let the oversensitive nellies scare you away from this board. I'm sure you've already noticed more than a little bit of incongruity between some of the comments and some of the threads. Heaven forbid a real woman come around here looking for !gasp! ...a date.
Oh no, it's apparently too offensive and fetishy to talk about what grownups do on the dance floor but threads about wearing bras to sleep in and the color of my underpants, are somehow protecting the non-fetish integrity of the forum so the un-accepting wife can feel safe?
In my never humble opinion, we could use MORE chicks like you so the wives can see that we're not pariahs and more importantly that they're NOT saints just for sticking with us.
You, my sassy and beautiful friend, are a breath of fresh air. This place starts to feel a bit like a virtual closet sometimes and it's refreshing when someone opens the door enough to let some wind in.
-Misty
