Rude or not, I am afraid that a lot of men probably feel exactly as he does. How many str8 cder's here are repulsed at the thought of being involved with a smelly,hairy, nasty GM,( iam not gay) and have expressed it just as I have just done?
Or maybe you are even PC about it, but that doesn't change the fact that you find it repugnant. It is unfortunate that this guy wasn't as delicate as some of you thought that he should be, but str8 forward or candy coated.. it is what it is. Rejection is still rejection no matter how you look at it.
Are you in fact ignorant or uneducated because of your preference? I am not defending his words, but I am defending his right to his own preference, just as I defend your right to being disgusted by the thought of having a sexual relationship with another man. I don't see the difference. I know exactly where Kara is coming from, and had my share of rejection, and it is hurtful. I found out that you in fact do have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince, especially when you are competing with gg's in the mainstream. GG's are a pretty hard act to follow. Kara, my best advice to you is to hang in there, and don't give up your dream...
Kelly
