My wife and I still dance around the subject. Lately, she has been glancing at my legs, which are entirely devoid of hair, or my toenails, which are freshly-pedicured. She has ben trying to be nice and understand it, therefore giving me space. Neither of us wants to break down the embarrassment surrounding the issue, and discuss it further. So, it is a silence, but not the cold silence I used to get. I would call that progress, i Guess.

Kathi