OUT but it aint me...

[ChanDelle]

I agree with Lorileah. It's a slippery slope at best. Might be a joke as his wife knows and you don't know if he knows about Chloe? I smell a rat ( or at least the essence of rat). I could be a simple mistake or a joke. I simply wouldn't take the bait just in case it's a simple mistake and could cause embarrassment to him. Or perhaps embarrassment to you if it is a trap or joke. To many ways to loose on this one if you don't just ignore it.

Is it possible he's on here and a CD? That'd resolve it.

ChanDelle

[Genifer Teal]

Regardless of what you ultimately do, wait a few days, then, if you choose, talk to him privately.

Now let me relate a story. I recently met someone at a local TG event. I saw them at the bar and commented how they reminded me of someone I work with. With that, she confirmed what I wasn't even thinking. We do work for the same company. This is a large company with thousands of employees. We do not work directly together but in the same building and have actually worked together on a few occasions.

Now for the related part. (s)he tells me (s)he knew about me for 5 years. (s)he noticed me first at a previous event. I was shocked and disappointed that a potential friend and comrade at my job hid it from me for so long when (s)he knew about me. Maybe (s)he was hiding herself. Who knows. I think it is great and wish we both met that first time (s)he discovered me.

I think it is great to share a secret like this with someone. It is hard enough finding friends with our mutual interests. Now I have one in the building at work. We know there is at least one person we can each rely on for help at work. I just wish I'd have known sooner. I feel cheated to not have known all those times we have worked together in the past. (s)he was extra nice. I'm glad I was to.

If I was your brother, I'd like to know. That's just my opinion.

Gen