If the story is true then the originator made a bunch of bad choices that have led her to where she is now, including making a poorly worded statement about her wife that she never have been posted at all.
Based on reading what she says, which of course is only a fraction of the real context of her situation, it sounds like she has some very serious relationship issues to deal with above and beyond the dressing.
She needs to do some serious soul searching and think about good choices that she can make to move her life and her relationship to a better place. None of us know enough about her or her situation to even assess what course of action to advise other than lots of open honest communication and formal counselling with someone who understands both relationship and transgender issues.
That being said, hopefully the replies to her post will help her on her journey and perhaps be of benefit to others as well.
