Quote Originally Posted by mylieanna View Post
ya know this is a really easy thing to pull off, ALOT of guys shave their legs, surfers, swimmers, body builders, runners, many sports players and models, STERIOTYPICALLY AA men, and pretty boys (me). Also there are other guys that just do it for the hell of it. If you can pick a category there and explain with confidence that theres nothing wrong with it, no one will question you or care. Its not the old days anymore, in fact now a days theres alot of females that like guys shaved, and if your doing it for the females, whos goning to think its a bad idea? you might even change their mind.
to make you feel better here is a link to a completly different website that asks a similar question from people who "apparently" dont CD and males and females all respond to the topic mostly positivly with pretty good ideas of why you shouldnt be afraid (only showing this so you can see that generally people other than us CDers really DONT care about it).
http://personalitycafe.com/sex-relat...heir-legs.html
Interesting link.

I found there something that is very similar to my wife's objections to my leg shaving (she doesn't know about my CDing):

I don't care for the hairless look at all. To me, there's something kind of sexy about male body hair. I'm not talking about the hair itself but more like the attitude that comes with being comfortable in one's own skin. Just accepting yourself for who you are. The hairless look actually grosses me out, whether it's just the legs or the full body. I just get the impression that the guy is either really vain or really self-conscious and both of those characteristics are very unattractive to me, whether the person is male or female. It's like the people who fry themselves into oblivion just to look tan. I have never and will never find that look attractive.
She said that she doesn't mind the look, but she does not understand why a guy would be concerned about his body hair. Actually I felt bad and a bit vain after her comment, but I think she is buying the sports excuse, or at least getting used. What I don't see working is keeping myself smooth all the time (I would really love it!!!), otherwise I'd go after laser treatment.

I really envy those whose SO asks them to do it because they dislike body hair. A perfect example of acceptance and excuse, all in one...