Well you just lost a good place to start educating people right there ........ you had the chance to have an open dialogue by asking the question "WHY" ? ...............you did not have to say you dressed, but you could have said you know people who do (on here eg so you would not be lying) and that they come from all walks of life, from the neighbour across the way, to mayors, doctors, judges, teachers, shop keepers/assistants etc etc, and "why does she feel negative toward em?"