Jamie,
Great progress. Your classes are going much like my jazz/ballet classes from years ago. We occasionally had another guy join our class for a week or so, but it eventually boiled down to me and 6 ladies. By then with every one else being female, it's hard for them NOT to treat you as "one of the girls" even though they were very glad to have a guy in class with them. You might find it easier then to push toward the dance clothing you would prefer. I bet if you said something about starting to wear a leotard and tights to fit in better, or have your wife suggest it, you will get a lot of support. I did restrict my choices to dark solid colors and basic leotard styles. The gals in my class were almost insistent that I continue that attire once I joined them. And that included strolling over to the convenience store down the strip center for a soda with them in our dancewear, something I would have never done alone! Your experience brings back some amazing memories.
